We have assembled the most frequently asked questions from our clients to help you understand the Voodoo religion, how to effectively use our products and touch upon why our products are so effective.
Voodoo is a very complex religion and this is not intended to be a representation of the religion in its entirety, this is merely an additional resource page to help you make an informed decision about our product lines. For more information on the varying traditions we offer at Erzulie's, please view the "more about" pages in each section of the site.
INTERNATIONAL SHIPPING FEES FROM THE US:
If your total INTERNATIONAL MAIL order is:
$1.00 - $39.00 add $35.00
$40.00 - $79.00 add $45.00
$80.00 - $199.00 add $60.00
$200.00 - $299.00 add $70.00
$300.00 - $399.00 add $85.00
$400.00 or More - please call the store or email webmistress@erzulies.co.uk for a quote
DOMESTIC UK/EURO SHIPPING QUESTIONS & COSTS:
To ensure quality and for security purposes, we ship via the Royal Mail. We DO NOT have FedEx or UPS accounts, we only ship via the Royal Mail using Priority Post, Tracking, Confirmation and Insurance premium services to ship throughout the Pan-Euro markets, this is for your protection and security. Shipping from our UK/Euro Office will take about 3-7 business days from the date of your order. If you ordered through our US Site and it is shipping from our New Orleans or Newport, RI location, it will take between 2-3 weeks. Our UK/Euro Office staff is more than happy to help answer any of your shipping and or tracking questions, please call 0845 130-6922 anytime or email sales@erzulies.co.uk with your domestic delivery questions!
INTERNATIONAL SHIPPING QUESTIONS FROM THE USA:
To ensure quality and for security purposes, we ship via DHL Priority Express International Mail or USPS Global Express Mail ! This is the ONLY way we will ship to protect you and verify we did indeed send your package to the address you provided. Both DHL and USPS provide all of the tracking information and customs forms on the package. Please note, you are responsible for any duties, taxes or customs fees your country may require to receive your package. Please visit www.DHL-USA.com or www.USPS.com to track your package using the tracking number posted to your account if you placed a web order. You will not be provided tracking if you sent a money order.
HERE IS THE DHL INTERNATIONAL SHIPPING PROCESS:
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1) Your order label is electronically processed via DHL or USPS with confirmation and tracking emailed to you (if you left a VALID email address), this is done within 1-5 days from receipt of your order. If you left a valid email address with your online order, you will receive an electronic copy of your tracking number or you will see this tracking number when you log into your account.
For those who don't leave a valid email address, do not call the store looking for your tracking number, it is ONLY remitted electronically via email and posted to your account, so we encourage you to log into your web account to see your tracking information. Please paste that number at www.DHL-USA.com or www.USPS.com to see your tracking information.
- 2) Then, we handcraft the items and package; this could take 1 day to 7 business days depending upon your order; if it's a CUSTOM ORDER it will take a minimum of 5-10 business days to prepare. We ship every Monday morning for the prior weeks orders up to the prior Saturday! We are able to ship almost daily from the Newport, RI location but our standard shipping schedule is on Monday.
- 3) We deliver to the DHL Office or the USPS for their receipt scan. Once it is IN THEIR HANDS, it USUALLY takes within 1-3 BUSINESS WEEKS TO DELIVER - NOT INCLUDING WEEKENDS OR HOLIDAYS! This is largely due to the Customs Department in foreign countries; we HAVE NO CONTROL over how long they hold onto a package, please check with your CUSTOMS department to determine their normal time frame of examining international packages. Further, we are not responsible for what your Customs Department does to your package; your items are at the mercy of your country's Customs laws, procedures and indemifications. If they break, rifle, damage, or alter your items in any way, they are responsible and you are ordering at your own risk since we do not have any control over your Customs Department.
- 4) However, they also state this is an ESTIMATE ONLY; according to their website, International delivery time can vary depending upon the country and any governmental issues. For more information, please visit www.DHL-USA.com or www.USPS.com to review their shipping disclaimers if you wish.
- 5) PLEASE DO NOT EMAIL OR CALL THE STORE within 1 week of placing an International order to find out why it is not there yet: THESE ARE HANDCRAFTED ITEMS, we prepare and ship faster than any other company we know of in our industry, normally, our customers receive everything within 2 weeks days from placing an INTERNATIONAL order, this is NOT ALWAYS POSSIBLE HOWEVER since the DELIVERY IS UP TO DHL AND YOUR LOCAL GOVERNMENT. Please log into your account on the website for your tracking information if you placed your order via the web.
- 6) VERY IMPORTANT POLICY: If your package is undeliverable, or you do not respond to the notice of delivery left on your door, or it is sent back to us due to an error in the address you provided on your order, you will be credited the value of your order less a 25% restocking fee and the shipping and handling fee. We will not incur the cost of the shipping fees or employee/staff time if your package is undeliverable or you did not respond to the delivery notifications, should your package be returned to us. In the event of this occuring, you will have to place a new order - NO EXCEPTIONS!!!
REFUNDS, CREDITS, EXCHANGES AND DAMAGED ITEMS
We truly want you thrilled with your handcrafted spiritual products from Erzulie's, however, due to the nature of our handcrafted and ritualized products, we cannot accept any returns or exchanges on any product with the exception of unopened, returned packages, should your address be invalid or you made an address error when placing the order. In which case, you will receive a partial store credit upon intact receipt of the returned items, less shipping and handling fees and a 25% restocking fee on the items. Please make sure you leave a valid address or respond to the delivery notifications left on your door provided by DHL or USPS or you will only receive a partial store credit. The package returned to us by the shipper must be unopened and untampered to receive a partial store credit; if it arrives opened, tampered or altered in anyway, it will be documented and shipped back to you. Store credits are not available for any product after delivery or that have left the store, opened, used or altered in anyway. We will not accept any returned shipments if you changed your mind, decided in a few weeks you don't want the handcrafted item(s), or decided you don't want to use the item(s) afterall or any other reason; your items cannot be returned to the store, nor refunded. In part, we have no way of verifying what you have done to our precious oils or our products once they have left our possession and per certain Federal sanitary guidelines, they are not allowed to be re-stocked, therefore, please choose your products carefully as they cannot be exchanged, returned, refunded or revised in any way.
Although extremely rare, in the event the wrong product was shipped to you in error, please notify us within 72 business hours upon receipt and ship back to us for a full exchange, providing it returns to us unopened and unaltered. If it arrives opened and the contents tampered with, we will photograph your items and email you the image to explain why this cannot be accepted.
If indeed everything is untampered, we will priority ship your correct product out immediately at our expense. Again, customers have 72 business hours (3 business days) to notify us of the error, if we do not receive notification of the shipping error within this time frame we will not honor the exchange. To notify us of the error, you must contact our retail store at (504) 525-2055 or (401) 845-2055 or email: webmistress@erzulies.com with your product information, tracking number and delivery date and we will priority ship your correct product out immediately at our expense.
Should you purchase the wrong items after check out and realize you meant something else, i.e., you meant to purchase a Love Scrub Soap but Selected the Money Wash in error, no problem, simply email webmistress@erzulies.com so we have your correction and/or request in writing. We can revise your order BEFORE shipping the products with your WRITTEN consent only.
We take extraordinary care in packing each order with plenty of secure shipping supplies (bubble wrap, heavy shipping boxes, peanuts, etc., rarely has anything ever arrived broken, in the few events this has occured, it has been the sole responsibility of DHL and their handling of your package, therefore, should anything break during shipping, you MUST FILE A CLAIM with DHL. This means, you will have to take your package to your local DHL office for them to examine the damage they caused. We are NOT RESPONSIBLE for any damage caused by DHL and highly recommend you opt to pay the additional amount for insurance, please call the store at (504) 525-2055 or (401) 845-2055 or email webmistress@erzulies.com to learn how to do this. Once the package leaves our hands and after insepction by DHL or USPS for secure shipping guidelines, it is no longer under our control and you must deal with DHL or USPS. To learn more about DHL, USPS and their local offices, please visit www.DHL-USA.com or www.USPS.com .
With regard to psychic reading sessions, there will be no refunds or credits should you fail to arrive or phone in during your scheudled time without providing 24 hours written and verbal cancellation to reschedule. To provide your cancellation up to 24 hours before your scheduled time, you must email webmistress@erzulies.com and phone 504-525-2055 or (401) 845-2055 - we require both forms of cancellation. We consider all no-shows for scheduled psychic reading appointments as services provided by Erzulie's, as agreed upon, since our practitioners are sitting there waiting for you during your scheduled time as you paid for; if you fail to show, they are still compensated for their spent time waiting for you and your session will not be rescheduled. If you show up late, your reading will be reduced by the amount of time you were late for the session unless we have proper notification of your situation or anticipated tardiness - NO EXCEPTIONS!!!
DO VOUDOU, VODOU, VOODOO RITUALS REALLY WORK?
Yes! First, this is a religion, one of the world's oldest religions, dating back thousands of years to Africa, specifically, the west coast of Africa. This is a monotheistic religion, we believe in one supreme creator (Bon Dieu or Gran Maitre) and while God is always present, God is not so involved in your every day secular trauma, trials and tribulations. In fact, God is perceived as a touch "disconnected" from human strife as God's primary concerns are more on the Cosmic, Karmic, Evolving the Soul and Consciousness areas.
Most of the very life defining experiences you endure are essentially, part of your divine plan, karmically designed to evolve your soul, no matter how bitter or agonizing some of these situations may be. However, God hasn't left you stranded - I promise, God has created amazing Spirits who intervene in very specific areas of human need and these divine messengers and helpers are collectively known as the Lwa, Loas, Orishas, Invisibles or Mysteries along with the divine intervention from all of our ancestors, those we have known and those we have never known, who have come long before us, guiding us throughout our journey here on Earth. It is through the help of these amazing spiritual entities and our beloved ancestors that much can be altered, avoided, enhanced and improved in your life on every level. This is why reverence, honor and representations of these powerful spiritual energies are always displayed in the homes and work places of Voodoo Practitioners.
This of course, is a brief and cursory overview of a very complex, multi-faceted spiritual belief system, but this ancient religion would not have survived thousands years without being empowering. Simply stated, Voudou absolutely works, not only the magical aspect, but also to keep you connected to spirit, grounded, protected and enlightened. The magical aspect of the religion is very effective in changing a very difficult situation, repairing love relationships, protecting you from ill-will or harmful people, healing you from a past traumas, opening up doors of opportunity in your life, putting you on your correct path, just to name a few out the endless areas the Lwa (Loa) assist you.
Most situations can be changed, altered or greatly improved, providing it does not alter certain karmic lessons you have to learn or endure here on Earth. For an example, in the case of bringing a lover back, if it is your lover's karma to be with someone else who is to provide certain lessons instead of you, then no, the Lwa (Loas) will not interfere or alter that Karmic lesson. Again, this is a very simplistic example on this topic for conceptual purposes only.
Most often, people want to know "when will I get everything I want?" "When will this work?" or variations of questions along those lines. While we are very sympathetic to those in extremely difficult, painful and challenging situations and do understand the anxiety behind their questions, the fact of the matter is: there is no simple, magic bullet to fix everything.
As I'm sure we can all agree, humans are usually their worst enemy and often do not want to make the difficult choices and sacrifices to position their lives in a better or more positive environment. We are not so good at change are we? Time frames for improvement or resolution on any matter hinge greatly on your willingness to recognize your contributions to the problem, your poor choices or poor behavioral habits and, your willingness to move past these impediments. Many of the other issues the Lwa, (Loas) will intervene and help maneuver out of your way or in your favor. Typically, ritual results range between 80-90% success rates, however, they do not just hand you your wish, (if only it were that easy) you must put a lot of work, energy, focus and gratitude into your request. Often, ritual results can take a great deal of time as well; the Lwa work in their own time frame, however, most see movement in their lives, results and often, a resolution within 20-60 days after completion of the ritual or spiritual work. In my experience, your commitment to your spiritual work, evolution and faith expedites your resolution on any situation.
I'VE BEEN CURSED OR HEXED, WHAT CAN I DO?
I often receive emails from people absolutely convinced they are the victim of evil spiritual work, cursing, hexing and this is why nothing works out in their lives. Although, there are cases of highly skilled practitioners who can send very dark, negative and harmful spirits towards you to impede your life, we have found most often, you are your very own "demon". It is much easier to blame the "invisible" versus your poor choices and lack of personal responsibility in the matter.
Rarely, is it a "demon" that makes you spend all of your money and not pay the mortgage until you are homeless, forces you to not find a job even though you desperately need the income, drink excessively, abuse drugs with the grocery money, hurt, harm or abuse your partner until they leave you, then stalk them because you can't understand why they want nothing to do with you, place your desperate need for any mate ahead of your children to the point your innocent children are in danger by this mate and taken away from you, which you cannot understand why, etc. I can name millions of poor choices that led many people to their demise and none of which, were caused by any spiritual entity.
These really are the fault of the humans and their lack of personal responsibility, discipline and awareness of their behavior towards others and we are all guilty of this. I bring these few examples to illustrate how often we are our own worst enemy. To blame spirits for your dangerous choices is just another example of your refusal to accept responsibility in any devastating outcome and usually indicative as to how you live your life - blameless and the victim. For those who perpetually need to be a victim, you will chronically manifest terrible situations to remain the perpetual victim.
I am often emailed by people who are panicked because they are told by "qualified mystics" on psychic hotlines or some carnival they are cursed, hexed or will have extreme bad luck if they do not pay these "spiritual masters" thousands of dollars to lift this curse. First, this psychologically creates the reality of being cursed, second, this gives some people an excuse for their horrible choices, and third, this is oldest scam in the book: terrorize people to bilk them out of their money by planting fears in their psyche.
Now, for those who truly have serious situations of work being done against them, where everything is unraveling, severe illnesses, severe accidents, unforeseen obstacles broad-siding you and causing your life to spiral out of control when their were previous balanced, we highly recommend scheduling a formal divination to determine what forces are at work before recommending any spiritual work.
HOW MUCH FOR YOU TO CAST A SPELL?
This is another touchy area. I firmly believe no one wants more for you than you do - period. Although having a practitioner work in tandem with you on ritual work is always a great source of power towards your goal, you must do your own work as well. It almost defies logic for those who desperately want to obtain something and yet, they do NOT WANT to put forth any spiritual effort or ritual work. Well, my question to you is, how badly do you want this outcome?
For those who really need the help of a practitioner working on rituals with them, bear in mind that is a much more expensive avenue. You now have to factor their time, expertise, their offerings, their ritual work and their divinations throughout the entire process so, this quickly adds up in expense. As for the costs, this truly depends on the complexity of your situation. Each case is completely different, everyone have distinctly different influences, obstacles and challenges, some more complicated than others.
The only accurate way to determine what is going on in your particular case is to schedule a formal divination so we can determine the forces at work before recommending the correct spiritual solution. There is no "fixed" or "flat" rate for ritual work, and hard as I try, I do not understand people who make those claims. How can they know each case will be exactly $50.00 for time, rituals, offerings, preparations, etc. without knowing the complexity of your case? This makes no sense to me in all honesty.
Nonetheless, for those who are having custom or ritual work performed on their behalf, the practitioner should always remit the fee schedule and for what items, time frames of completions, written and verbal updates on every step of the ritual work, outcomes of divinations throughout the ritual work and BE AVAILABLE by phone, email or in-person should you need to discuss certain aspects of your case at anytime.
I intensely detest hearing from customers that this "Powerful Practitioner" took $5,000 of their money and now they cannot get a hold of them, will not return a call, email nor update them on any of the ritual work if indeed they even performed the rituals. Please READ the Spiritual Scams Section Below!
SPIRITUAL SCAMS!
Ok folks, this is for all the millions of calls I get per day in the store with the same story. "I gave so and so thousands of dollars for something or other, and now I cannot locate them, they will not return my call, they will not email me back, I think I've been scammed…."
I always ask: who is this person (or company) and what were the details of the situation? I ask this out of respect for my colleagues as well; often legitimate practitioners get blamed when their client didn't win the lotto of something equally as ridiculous, so out of respect for those amazing practitioners available in the world, I always give them the benefit of the doubt as many people often have unreasonable expectations to begin with NO MATTER how many times they are told the reality of spiritual work and possible outcomes.
This DOES NOT MEAN you have been scammed just because "Johnny married another woman after all" or you "didn't win the Nobel Prize" or they couldn't make your "Karma different then what YOU wanted". Any legitimate practitioner will disclose the potential outcomes and the realities of situations that cannot be altered. If you choose not to listen and go ahead with someone's spell ritual anyway, do not blame Voodoo for no results, you got results, the results were just not what YOU wanted - please read the Does Voodoo Work Section for more explanation.
I always say, your prayers and petitions to the spirits are ALWAYS answered; sometimes the answer is "No".
For those who have been truly scammed and ripped off, my heart goes out to you; it is disgraceful and embarrassing for every spiritual worker to hear of yet another scumbag has preyed on the vulnerable. So many practitioners and spiritual workers I personally know are so devout and dedicated to serving and have provided incredible assistance to their clients for years. Here's how you can determine if you are working with a shady practitioner or spiritual organization.
1) They have no legitimate method of which to recieve funds for their items, such as a merchant account or credit card capability, no phone number (except a $4.99 per minute toll line for the privilege of speaking to the Guru), no business address, street address, store front, live humans answering the phone or returning phone calls! If they are operating using e-payments or Western Union or money order only, that should raise a red flag. Normally, legitimate businesses undergo much scrutiny, credit checks, background checks, operating license verification and financial review before a bank will issue them a merchant account, which certainly increases their credibility and gives you the consumer, an avenue to locate the company should a dispute arise.
2) They address themselves as "The Amazing This and That" "The Most Powerful This and That" "The Grand Magician of This and That" and are STILL not accessible in any way other than the cloak of the internet with no names, addresses, and contact information except for a P.O. BOX!
3) They GUARANTEE their work! I GUARANTEE this is a SCAM - "send me thousands and I GUARANTEE Johnny will return" for example - that is ridiculous to even consider as they ARE NOT GOD and cannot possibly know what is going on with Johnny's Karma!
4) They demand, force, insist, terrorize you into sending money immediately even though they have NOT conducted any formal divination to even determine what is going on in your situation!
5) Their initial consultation, should you even obtain one, always tells you this situation can be repaired, reconciled or fixed in amazingly, 24 - 72 hours (or whatever idiotic time frame) - for sure, just send them money and all will be perfect. Yeah, right!
6) Ritual work ALWAYS requires thousands of dollars for them to perform - this is simply NOT TRUE!!!! Often, something subtle like a good cleansing and banishing ritual can move mountains for you.
7) They offer no verification on their credentials, experience, colleagues, reputation, explanation on their products or services, no photos of the items on their websites, no details on the actual ritual work required and in what phases, time frames, ingredients, techniques and crafting, etc. Spiritual products should ALWAYS be handcrafted, find out where and how they make theirs before you buy them. Further, if you go with their products and services, they MUST disclose every bit of expense, elements needed, educate you on the rituals, disclose the divination results and offerings to which Lwa or Spirits before buying any custom or spiritual fetish, ritual, spell kit, etc. Have them disclose the details before buying - like you would ANY PRODUCT!
8) USE YOUR BRAINS NOT YOUR EMOTIONS: Find out how or observe HOW the purported most powerful guru LIVES, their environment, their friends, and their stability. If they are living in the SEWER and cannot maintain the most basic elements of continuity; for example: cannot keep their phone connected, cannot seem to pay their bills, cannot seem to live a balanced life, seem embittered and nasty about everyone, are always the victim of spiritual attacks, trash other practitioners behind their backs to get your business, live in abject poverty or filth although claim to be able to make you millions, or cannot seem to maintain a stable existence on any level, how on Earth are they going to HELP YOU with anything. They can't even manage their own lives. Who cares what they say to about their powers, purported knowledge, levels of initiations: the first sign of a strong spiritual worker is THE QUALITY OF THEIR OWN LIVES!!!!!! How are they living? Are they mindful, disciplined, honorable, hard workers, truthful, responsible, accountable and respectful to themselves, their environment and most importantly, Spirit? FIND OUT FIRST!!!!! Many purported Spiritual Master "talk the talk" , look good on paper, tell you everything you want to hear, but can they TRULY "walk the walk" of maintaining a spiritual life & serving above all else?
9) If they are hiding all the pertinent information from the public there is a reason. Ask them how long they have been in business; request their Business License Numbers, Incorporation Federal ID Number, State Tax Information (if applicable), City Tax Information, the Owners REAL Name and Address, etc. If they refuse, RUN NOW! Any legitimate business has the following: Tax ID, Sales Tax Exemption Number, City & State (if applicable to State Taxes) Account Numbers, Business License, Occupational License, etc. Ask FOR IT!!!!!!! Better yet, visit their place of business and ask to see it, most Occupational licenses have to have it displayed by LAW!
10) If they truly work just off the web, find out where they meet with clients, find out how they are accessible to see face to face, find out who they associate with and what stores for example. I know many AMAZING practitioners who truly work out of their homes and will always meet clients at colleague's stores or temples should that be required. There is nothing wrong with NOT having a store front as they can substitute many safe places to meet and get acquainted, but there is something wrong when these practitioners WILL NOT MEET YOU face to face.
WHAT IS A LWA, LOA OR ORISHA?
Without getting into the differences between the varying traditions, the Lwa, Loas or Orishas are the Voudou Spirits; The Invisibles; The Mysteries; simply stated: God's messengers & helpers. We have thousands of them in the Voudou Pantheon and all of which serve different areas of human needs. Voudou is such a reciprocal religion, for the Lwa to serve you; you must sincerely serve the Lwa with your gifts, offerings, acknowledgment, prayers and faith when petitioning their assistance.
HOW DO OUR PRODUCTS WORK?
This is a very common question from customers, how exactly does applying this elixir or using this fetish, etc. actually work for me? There are a few levels to this actually! First, all Authentic Voodoo or Spiritual products, the most powerful ones anyway, are hand-crafted; essentially, this is so the "ache" or "ashe" (pronounced Ah-shay - "life force") OR "fos" (force in Kreyòl) of the practitioner is infused into each and every item during the crafting process.
Every practitioner is essentially "claimed" by certain Lwa or Spirits and through ritualizing each product after they are handcrafted, it draws the energy and spiritual power from the Lwa that either "sit on the head of the practitioner" and/or the Lwa & Spirits they are ritualizing the spiritual items for, thereby giving you the benefit of their power and assistance.
Some are spiritual energies are more intense than others and our products are known to be very high-energy and intense so don't be thwarted by the energy you feel; that type of energy will only benefit you in your ritual.
Also, since Voodoo is an animate religion, we believe everything has Ache (a Life Force), therefore, since there are magical life forces in every thing, using the most organic elements such as roots, herbs, plants, sand, stones, water, precious oils, etc. bring forth their magical energies into your ritual or spiritual work. We know certain elements vibrate on different frequencies if you will, to affect specific changes in your life which is why authentic formulary and elements are so crucial to effective spiritual products.
Also, the quality of these ingredients and elements that go into our products make an enormous difference. We only use the finest organic herbs, roots, plants, rare and precious 100% pure essential oils, ottos, attars and absolutes, hand-pressed ritual powders, hand-brewed and hand-blended elixirs, anointing oils & potions to insure great results for you. We carefully craft each and every item by hand at Erzulie's and every practitioner showcased on our site subscribes to that same philosophy.
ARE LOVE SPELLS MANIPULATIVE?
Another touchy area among practitioners and one of great debate! Are you impeding upon someone's free will? Are you being manipulative, etc? All I can reveal is my personal opinion on this topic, everyone is entitled to their belief and you must go with what feels true and correct for you on this topic.
The first thing I would like to address is the "manipulative" question I get from so many other practitioners of traditions other than Voodoo. They ask this question about the Bring Me Love Spell Kit & especially, the Bring My Lover Back Spell Kit. They are usually highly critical or judgmental that I offer such ritual kits, not understanding of course, the premise of which they will work. Ironically, they of course ask me all about this manipulative aspect in drawing love or repairing love while dressed head to toe in corsets with push up bras, lacy, flowing seductive dresses, full face of make-up, dyed blond hair, smelling great, shaved legs, breast augmentations, liposuction and the full glamour presentation - hmmm, that's a bit manipulative too though isn't it?
You are artificially looking your very best through cosmetic manipulations on every level to do what I ask????? Attract people! When I point that out to them, they usually stop with their opining on manipulative tactics as they realize they are hypocrites and being quite misleading about how they truly look, smell and how nature created their body all to look like this ideal person to attract a mate, attention or, LOVE!!!!!
So, in my opinion, I do not find love spells manipulative any more than I find trying to appear as your very best manipulative. What wrong with trying to draw a special someone into your life to spend time with? What's wrong with wanting to give and receive love? Love Spells are terrific to help bring the right people to you, especially for those who are shy, timid, have been hurt or afraid to try again.
Nor I do not view trying to remedy a rough patch, or working out a difficult situation between 2 people who love each other as manipulative. Many times, people separate for inconsequential reasons: their egos may get in the way, they may be stubborn, afraid of these intense emotions, scared of being rejected so they leave first, etc.
If you are the recipient of such behavior with your loved one, why shouldn't you try to repair the relationship? Ritual work is very effective in allowing a partner see what they have with you and make them open to building upon that love. I know there are those who believe it is morally wrong to try to bring back a lover; they feel it infringes upon their free will, etc.
If it does infringe upon their free will, or their Karmic path, or they are so past you in their lives, the RITUALS WILL NOT WORK ANYWAY. I say, why should we be helpless and suffer with the loss of a loved one when indeed, we have to power, through the help of the Lwa and Spirit, to try and remedy it?
REVENGE SPELLS
Yet, another complicated topic among varying paths. I hear all the time Revenge Spells are BAD and this "law of three" rule will occur should you decide to defend yourself, etc. Again, I can only express my opinion on this topic.
I would like to start with this "Law of Three" concept. I personally do not believe in this "Law of Three" concept, especially for situations where people are TRULY trying to hurt or destroy you. From what I am to understand, your work will supposedly come back and kick you three fold for trying to protect and send back harmful, vile or evil works done against you.
I personally have never seen this in effect, nor do I believe it exists. I do believe that what you put out you will get back, especially if unjustified. I do not think protecting yourself from vile and horrid people and sending back their chaos is wrong, in fact, I adamantly believe you have the God given right to defend, protect and repel such people from your lives and this is how a Revenge Spell takes affect actually. It sends back the work and energies to the person who sent them to you in the first place. How that manifests is up to the Lwa & Spirit, but you have every right to request this be carried out to protect you, your livelihood, your children, etc.
Keep in mind, I DO NOT believe Spirit is always fixated on you, nor always catches nasty work or intentions being sent your way. Sometimes, they have to allow things for you to learn and evolve from, sometimes they need to know what is happening as well to best intervene and resolve the situation.
Essentially, sometimes people are the instrument of their own karma - if they gave unjustifiably in your mind gave harm to you, you have to right to send it back to them. I do not see any Karmic issues there in my opinion; I do know many disagree with me and that is fine too; you MUST GO WITH WHAT FEELS BEST FOR YOU!
Also, when conducting any magical ritual, you are always giving up something to affect this change and incur expense: spiritually, emotionally and possibly karmically. There IS ALWAYS a cost, it may not be seen today, you may not know where Spirit is drawing from to affect this change for you or where they may be pulling it from down the road, but there is always a spiritual cost involved for any type of work.
We always say be very careful what you wish for, not only will you get it, but you may find out the cost taken out of somewhere else in your life was too great for the outcome; you may be averted from that job opportunity because you put all of your energies into something else or you may have missed the perfect situation with a partner because you were too focused on fixing the last mate and your relationship issues, etc. These are just some conceptual examples of course on a very complicated topic of the principles of spiritual intervention.
SPELL RITUALS & SPELL KIT TIPS
Although our spell kit manuals, gris-gris bag instructions and ritual bath kit instructions are very detailed, we still receive emails from people with more questions so we would like to address them here for your convenience.
1) First, we DO NOT encourage people using 14 different Spell Kits from different places simultaneously. If you are already working with another practitioner's products, ritual items, spell kits, etc. we really recommend you finish your work and wait for the results. You really do not want to be invoking conflicting Deities, Spirits, Lwa, etc. during your ritual work as this truly DOES NOT BENEFIT YOU. We receive so many calls from people who want to perform our ritual kits, but they are in the middle of someone else's Wiccan, Celtic, Voodoo, etc. ritual kit - which is great, but continue with what you are working with first and then see if you need a different approach. Not everyone's ritual work is going to work for myriad reasons but once engaged, you really need to complete the ritual to the end so you can see which path is working for you.
2) Please READ all the instructions very carefully before conducting your rituals - read the manuals, instruction cards and web site information twice or three times if you need to - most of your questions are indeed answered in these places.
3) When performing any Voodoo spell kit, ritual kit, etc., please be in a private environment, relaxed and focused on your ritual tasks. Do not let roommates, lovers, mates, the telephone, email, pager, etc. get in your way of your time with Spirit. Do not tell everyone on the planet you are doing spell work, do not engage in drama with people you are performing the spell work on, do not call, harass, stalk, get into emotional histrionics or arguments with your mate when performing your spell work, etc.
Just do your ritual work and please, please, please, exercise some patience too. Do not email the last day of the ritual with questions about what time will this take affect, or anything along those lines, we have no way of knowing when all of your requests, if all are possible, will come to fruition. Please review the "Do Voodoo Rituals Work Section" above for further explanation.
4) Your ritual work should take about 15-30 minutes per day, each day for the entire time or days of the ritual. Do not skip a day, do not skip a few weeks, etc. conduct your ritual each day until your spell kit or ritual work is complete. If you are forced to skip a day, then you must do 2 rituals the very next day at different times to make up the ritual time you lost.
5) The time of day isn't so important as long as you are performing your ritual approximately the same time each day. Do your very best to allocate this time for the duration of the ritual towards your spell work.
6) Although the spell kit manuals cover in great detail the offerings for the Lwa, please use your best judgment should certain items not be available when purchasing your offerings. All offerings are available at any grocery store in the US or convenience store, these are not difficult to obtain. Example, if they are out of Coconut Candy, substitute with coconut cookies, coconut pies, etc.
7) If you are unable to purchase alcohol, substitute it with different sodas, the Lwa love Soda and Fizzy drinks too.
8) Your offerings should be well thought out and carefully chosen with your best efforts and sincerity - this is the goal after all, not the specific brand label of the product. What you give, you offer with your heart - your true intentions to sacrifice and thank Spirit are the purpose of the offerings.
9) Let your candles burn and equal amount of time each day, if need be, make equal distant hash marks in the candles for the amount of days you will need them so you can insure your candles burn the same amount of time each day.
10) When instructions say "anoint" this means to rub oil on the spell kit candles or pour a few drops of oil or a few pinches of powder each day in your gris-gris bag for the prescribed amount of days.
11) Please go with spirit or instinct on any other elements you would like to add to your altar or ritual items as you go. If you adding more offerings, placing objects on the altar, bathing before the ritual, etc. is purposeful for you, then do it; this is really between you and spirit.
PERFUME, POTIONS & ELIXIRS QUESTIONS
All of Erzulie's Magical Perfumes, Love Potions, Exquisite Elixirs & Body Pastes are already handcrafted and ritualized for you, all you need to do is apply to the body like you would any perfume or body spray. I receive many emails from people not sure of how to use them, and I don't include instructions with these product lines as they are Spiritual Body Perfumes and Sprays and you merely wear them to affect these changes in your life.
NATURAL SPIRITUAL SOAP QUESTIONS
All of Erzulie's Natural Organic Goat's Milk Soaps and Spiritual Soaps are already handcrafted and ritualized for you, all you need to do is wash with them, like you would any soap. I receive many emails from people not sure of how to use them, and I don't include instructions with the natural soap product lines as they are Spiritual Soaps and you merely wash with them to affect these changes in your life.
SPIRITUAL BATH RITUAL QUESTIONS
All of Erzulie's Spiritual Ritual Bath Kits are already handcrafted and ritualized for you and arrive with detailed instructions. The most common question I have is about the 7 knob candle. Occasionally, these candles do not burn down very fast and can actually take much longer to burn than your bath time. This is okay, but PLEASE - DO NOT stay in the bathtub until you are freezing because the candle has not fully burned down a knob - I am surprised at the number of people who do this every day because the instructions say "let one of the knobs burn down while in the bath tub." Yes, it says this but I am also assuming you are going to use a bit of common sense too. When you feel your bath ritual time is over, simply step out of the tub and let the candle continue to burn in an area you can observe (NEVER leave a burning candle unattended) until the knob has fully burned down. This ritual is not to chain you inside a freezing tub once the water cools down, it is to draw spirit to you while performing the ritual. Our new Voodoo Bath Ritual Kits now arrive with our famous Goat's Milk Spiritual Soaps - while the instructions do not explain how to use the soap, we assume you will know how to wash with the soap while in the bathtub. If in doubt, please read the Natural Spiritual Soap Section.
CUSTOM SPELLS VERSUS STOCK KITS
Custom kits are specifically handcrafted for you depending upon the complexity of your situation, usually they are suggested when you are trying to delve into something with multiple layers of issues and usually involving 2 or more parties within a relationship or situation. Please note, One (1) Custom Spell kit cannot cover a love triangle, a career move, banishing several different obstacles and winning a medical malpractice suit at one time - this is not possible with just one kit. The custom kits work on the your specific case within it's "like" genre. For example, it can deal with the relationship issues, or the legal issues, or the obstacles, but not all three categories crafted and ritualized in just one 9 day kit.
Custom Spell Kits are a product that is created exclusively for you and the subjects you name based upon the details you MUST remit. I will also require some biological samples (hair or handwriting is fine), sent in plastic bags, photographs, psychical description, geographical location, full names, DOB's and any other details on the subjects you can provide along with your WRITTEN details as to what you want accomplished before I handcraft the appropriate elements, ritual items and instructions for you to perform your Custom 9 Day Voodoo Spell Ritual. Again, this is not something I recommend this except in very difficult situations. You may need Stock Ritual kits along with a Custom Ritual as well to bring about all the changes you are seeking.
Custom rituals have the same success rates as other ritual work, 80-90% effective, however, you are subject to the Karmic aspects of your life path as well and therefore a successful outcome or obtaining exactly what you think should happen cannot be 100% guaranteed. Please read more about "Guarantees" and the "Do Voodoo Rituals Work" Section for more detail.
GUARANTEES
Once again, if we haven't made this clear enough, here is further elaboration on this concept of Guarantees in any spiritual or magical rituals. First, if ANYONE on the web is guaranteeing the results of their ritual work - THEY ARE LYING! No one is GOD and therefore cannot possibly guarantee the outcome of your situation. There are sites that will refund you money if you are not satisfied with your product, and that is entirely different.
We cannot, nor will not, claim your ritual will have a 100% successful outcome as YOU desire; we have no way of knowing how you followed the instructions, if you changed your mind mid-ritual, if you actually attempted to perform your ritual, if what you are requesting is not possible since we really don't know your Karmic path nor do we know every single influence affecting your particular situation just to name a few of the many reasons.
This truly applies to everyone actually, there isn't a practitioner alive who knows any of this information the way God does, therefore, after all ritual work is complete, the final outcome is always left up to Spirit and what they deem is the best resolution and outcome is for you.
We DO guarantee we use only the finest, organic ingredients available by the season, the highest grade precious and pure essential oils anywhere, that our products are based upon the best and most authentic Voudou or Spiritual methods possible. We also guarantee that if a product arrives damaged, we will replace that product upon receipt of you returning the damaged product. If something is missing from your product or kit, we will gladly send you that item immediately and free of charge. We guarantee you will always receive caring customer support for anything you may need and a timely response from us 100% of the time.
CAN I PERFORM MY OWN RITUAL?
Absolutely! You don't need to be a Voudou practitioner to obtain results with your problem; the Lwa (Loas) are here to help you and are happy to do so. All you need is a sincere effort and best of intentions when working with your own Spell kit. We provide detailed instructions in each of our spell kits and magical rituals to help you obtain successful results when working with Spirit.
IS VOUDOU, VOODOO, VODOU, MAGIC - DEMONIC, BAD, EVIL...?
Personally, I have always found "Good, Bad and Evil" are concepts; usually determined by ones own perception. For example, is it bad that someone else got that job you wanted and you didn't? To you I'm sure it seems "bad", to the other person, I'm sure it seems "good". Essentially, these are concepts that only apply depending upon your perspective.
As for Voodoo, Voudou, Vodou, Witchcraft & Ancient Religions, et al, I do want to address first, for people to please stop watching bogus Hollywood movies or TV specials that misrepresent these amazing, Earth-loving & spiritually reciprocal religions. The mass-media images of Voudou among many others are terribly misleading and completely inaccurate. All religions have entities with both benevolent and dark sides to their nature; in Voudou, each deity has different personas.
They are the same spirit in essence but from different Voudou "families" to provide the varying services required. For example, the Rada Family is the most benevolent while the Petro Family is one of the fiercest; our kits use the appropriate Lwa, depending upon your situation, to best serve you, without causing harm to others.
The same concepts hold true for just about every pantheon I know of, all spirits have duality to them depending upon what tasks they have to perform for you. This does not means we do not condone causing harm or seeking revenge on others; we always offer you a better way to resolve your situation. We do understand however, that you ultimately have free will and take no responsibility should you choose a more vengeful method in which to solve your problems.
I have found it's never the "religion" or "spirits" that are bad or harmful, it is more the "religious" that misrepresent or abuse their power and knowledge on behalf of the Spirit World. I have also found a great deal of ignorance in understanding ancient paths and traditions especially in "modern" cultures, which are so very disconnected from spirituality. It is due to these fears of the unknown, ignorance of ancient paths and belief systems that religions like Voudou are portrayed deplorably and extremely inaccurate.
For example, every day we see the media coming to New Orleans to do a documentary on REAL Voudou, the authentic religion, they promise to portray the religion accurately, etc. After every single practitioner in New Orleans has spent endless amounts of time educating these slick producers for free, then they run their TV Shows or Films on nothing but Skulls, Human Sacrifices, Vampires, etc. which have nothing to do with Voodoo and completely discounting the religion, spirituality and the education they received on this religion - why you ask?
Because nothing sells better than "gore and glam", and they exploit Voodoo, among many other traditions, to shock and titillate the public to glean viewers. More viewers mean they can sell more toothpaste and shampoo for their advertisers and quite frankly, they could care less about educating the public on any topic for that matter when they can make tons of money off airtime.
Simply stated, if you are basing your perceptions and knowledge on any topic, especially Voodoo or Ancient Religions from TV, Magazines or Films, with the exception of a few very legitimate media outlets (National Geographic for example), do not consider the information valid. Mass media is not a source of legitimate, intelligent information or research on any topic in all honesty.
MISCELLANEOUS SILLY QUESTIONS (WHICH WILL NOT BE RESPONDED TO)